look at harvey
but poor people are the problem right? smh
I should let everyone know, since it seems to be a thing not many know, that it actually is possible to refuse overdraft “protection”, at least with Capital One, and to have it taken off, as I did with Teachers Federal Credit Union and New York Community Bank.
I should warn you, they will try to persuade you to stay on with statements like “what if you need it for your rent?” Refuse it. Adamantly. Drive the point home that “no, I want my card to decline when there is more in my purchase than my bank account”.
Don’t get screwed by the fancy talk. Or the term “overdraft protection”. It is about as much protection as the FINE (for breaking the law making health insurance mandatory) Obamacare has for people who are too “rich” for Medicaid whose employers don’t give healthcare and for whom other bills are far too much to buy one of the exorbitant “low-cost” options is a tax.
What if it’s a phase?
What if it is? That doesn’t stop you being asexual right now.
It may be tempting to hold back on accepting your asexuality in the hope that eventually you’ll ‘bloom’ into a sexual person. I’m not saying that might not eventually happen, but consider this: do you want to spend your life thinking of yourself as an undeveloped person, living for the dreamed of day when you’ll become whole? Might you feel more comfortable accepting who you are now as a whole complete valid person? Maybe one day you will “bloom”, and if and when you do, you won’t have lost anything by being comfortable in the mean time.
There’s no shame in identifying as one thing and then later identifying as another. Your identity isn’t meant to limit you. If you’ve moved on or changed, then by all means describe yourself differently. If you fear you might be different in the future, that doesn’t change which label is most useful to you in the present. There’s nothing wrong with change.
I feel this is something people need to read. This can apply to any sexuality, not just asexuality.
Egoraptor’s facebook is pure gold
I wish I could stand blogging on my computer so I wouldn’t have to see the same terrible posts over and over again.
Hey guys, I’m Jess ironicdavestrider and I’m a mentally and physically ill non-binary person who needs to save up money to move out of my abusive household.
I lost my job in May after my dad was hospitalized and unresponsive, leaving me as his power of attorney in case of an emergency. He has since recovered enough for me to begin job hunting again; but I need some extra help in the mean time. My mom also passed away last year; leaving my dad in a state where he doesn’t seem to care about my well being and constantly threatens to kick me out; and if that happens I have no safety net.
I want to move out ASAP because I have no food here (my dad shames me for eating) and my dad does not cater to my medical conditions (PTSD, #rape trauma syndrome, PCOS, and chronic migraines). I have to buy my own food, gas, car insurance (which alone is $125 a month) and save up for an apartment.
I’m currently suffering from drug addiction/withdrawals and #self harm addiction due to my surroundings and their effect on my mental health.
If all of my followers were able to donate $5, I would have around $8500 alone. So I’m asking for you to donate, and if that’s not possible please signal boost this. Any amount counts and it would help me out more than you know.
Unfortunately I cannot add much of an incentive; so for anyone who donates $15 or more can send me their info (as proof) and I’ll keep a promo page on my blog with your URL linked. I’m sorry I can’t do much more than that; I wish I could :/
Thank you so much in advance y’all :)
tfw ur uterus is trying to kill you
i’m not usually a praying girl but if you’re out there, madoka,
Added a whole bunch more hydrangea blossoms and filled in the gaps with daisies, and I like it so much more! After removing hot glue strands I added the tulle overlay and I’m quite pleased with it.
Still work left to be done - a waistband, zipper, and seam binding on the bodice. But the tough stuff is over!
"Toys R Us got me fucked up"